THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN BY JOHN STUART MILL
CHAPTER I
The object of this Essay is to explain as clearly as I am able grounds of an opinion which I have held from the
very earliest period when I had formed any opinions at all on social political matters, and which, instead of being
weakened or modified, has been constantly growing stronger by the progress reflection and the experience of life.
That the principle which regulates the existing social relations between the two sexes--the legal subordination
of one sex to the other--is wrong itself, and now one of the chief hindrances to human improvement; and that it
ought to be replaced by a principle of perfect equality, admitting no power or privilege on the one side, nor disability
on the other. The very words necessary to express the task I have undertaken, show how arduous it is. But it would
be a mistake to suppose that the difficulty of the case must lie in the insufficiency or obscurity of the grounds
of reason on which my convictions. The difficulty is that which exists in all cases in which there is a mass of
feeling to be contended against. So long as opinion is strongly rooted in the feelings, it gains rather than loses
instability by having a preponderating weight of argument against it. For if it were accepted as a result of argument,
the refutation of the argument might shake the solidity of the conviction; but when it rests solely on feeling,
worse it fares in argumentative contest, the more persuaded adherents are that their feeling must have some deeper
ground, which the arguments do not reach; and while the feeling remains, it is always throwing up fresh intrenchments
of argument to repair any breach made in the old. And there are so many causes tending to make the feelings connected
with this subject the most intense and most deeply-rooted of those which gather round and protect old institutions
and custom, that we need not wonder to find them as yet less undermined and loosened than any of the rest by the
progress the great modern spiritual and social transition; nor suppose that the barbarisms to which men cling longest
must be less barbarisms than those which they earlier shake off.
In every respect the burthen is hard on those who attack an almost universal opinion. They must be very fortunate
well as unusually capable if they obtain a hearing at all. They have more difficulty in obtaining a trial, than
any other litigants have in getting a verdict. If they do extort a hearing, they are subjected to a set of logical
requirements totally different from those exacted from other people. In all other cases, burthen of proof is supposed
to lie with the affirmative. If a person is charged with a murder, it rests with those who accuse him to give proof
of his guilt, not with himself to prove his innocence. If there is a difference of opinion about the reality of
an alleged historical event, in which the feelings of men general are not much interested, as the Siege of Troy
example, those who maintain that the event took place expected to produce their proofs, before those who take the
other side can be required to say anything; and at no time these required to do more than show that the evidence
produced by the others is of no value. Again, in practical matters, the burthen of proof is supposed to be with
those who are against liberty; who contend for any restriction or prohibition either any limitation of the general
freedom of human action or any disqualification or disparity of privilege affecting one person or kind of persons,
as compared with others. The a priori presumption is in favour of freedom and impartiality. It is held that there
should be no restraint not required by I general good, and that the law should be no respecter of persons but should
treat all alike, save where dissimilarity of treatment is required by positive reasons, either of justice or of
policy. But of none of these rules of evidence will the benefit be allowed to those who maintain the opinion I
profess. It is useless me to say that those who maintain the doctrine that men ha a right to command and women
are under an obligation obey, or that men are fit for government and women unfit, on the affirmative side of the
question, and that they are bound to show positive evidence for the assertions, or submit to their rejection. It
is equally unavailing for me to say that those who deny to women any freedom or privilege rightly allow to men,
having the double presumption against them that they are opposing freedom and recommending partiality, must held
to the strictest proof of their case, and unless their success be such as to exclude all doubt, the judgment ought
to against them. These would be thought good pleas in any common case; but they will not be thought so in this
instance. Before I could hope to make any impression, I should be expected not only to answer all that has ever
been said bye who take the other side of the question, but to imagine that could be said by them--to find them
in reasons, as I as answer all I find: and besides refuting all arguments for the affirmative, I shall be called
upon for invincible positive arguments to prove a negative. And even if I could do all and leave the opposite party
with a host of unanswered arguments against them, and not a single unrefuted one on side, I should be thought to
have done little; for a cause supported on the one hand by universal usage, and on the r by so great a preponderance
of popular sentiment, is supposed to have a presumption in its favour, superior to any conviction which an appeal
to reason has power to produce in intellects but those of a high class. I do not mention these difficulties to
complain of them; first, use it would be useless; they are inseparable from having to contend through people's
understandings against the hostility their feelings and practical tendencies: and truly the understandings of the
majority of mankind would need to be much better cultivated than has ever yet been the case, before they be asked
to place such reliance in their own power of estimating arguments, as to give up practical principles in which
have been born and bred and which are the basis of much existing order of the world, at the first argumentative
attack which they are not capable of logically resisting. I do not therefore quarrel with them for having too little
faith in argument, but for having too much faith in custom and the general feeling. It is one of the characteristic
prejudices of the ion of the nineteenth century against the eighteenth, to d to the unreasoning elements in human
nature the infallibility which the eighteenth century is supposed to have ascribed to the reasoning elements. For
the apotheosis of Reason we have substituted that of Instinct; and we call thing instinct which we find in ourselves
and for which we cannot trace any rational foundation. This idolatry, infinitely more degrading than the other,
and the most pernicious e false worships of the present day, of all of which it is the main support, will probably
hold its ground until it way before a sound psychology laying bare the real root of much that is bowed down to
as the intention of Nature and ordinance of God. As regards the present question, I am going to accept the unfavourable
conditions which the prejudice assigns to me. I consent that established custom, and the general feelings, should
be deemed conclusive against me, unless that custom and feeling from age to age can be shown to have owed their
existence to other causes than their soundness, and to have derived their power from the worse rather than the
better parts of human nature.
I am willing that judgment should go against me, unless I can show that my judge has been tampered with. The concession
is not so great as it might appear; for to prove this, is by far the easiest portion of my task. The generality
of a practice is in some cases a strong presumption that it is, or at all events once was, conducive to laudable
ends. This is the case, when the practice was first adopted, or afterwards kept up, as a means to such ends, and
was grounded on experience of the mode in which they could be most effectually attained. If the authority of men
over women, when first established, had been the result of a conscientious comparison between different modes of
constituting the government of society; if, after trying various other modes of social organisation--the government
of women over men, equality between the two, and such mixed and divided modes of government as might be invented--it
had been decided, on the testimony of experience, that the mode in which women are wholly under the rule of men,
having no share at all in public concerns, and each in private being under the legal obligation of obedience to
the man with whom she has associated her destiny, was the arrangement most conducive to the happiness and well-being
of both; its general adoption might then be fairly thought to be some evidence that, at the time when it was adopted,
it was the best: though even then the considerations which recommended it may, like so many other primeval social
facts of the greatest importance, have subsequently, in the course of ages, ceased to exist. But the state of the
case is in every respect the reverse of this. In the first place, the opinion in favour of the present system,
which entirely subordinates the weaker sex to the stronger, rests upon theory only; for there never has been trial
made of any other: so that experience, in the sense in which it is vulgarly opposed to theory, cannot be pretended
to have pronounced any verdict. And in the second place, the adoption of this system of inequality never was the
result of deliberation, or forethought, or any social ideas, or any notion whatever of what conduced to the benefit
of humanity or the good order of society. It arose simply from the fact that from the very earliest twilight of
human society, every woman owing to the value attached to her by men, combined with her inferiority in muscular
strength) was found in a state of bondage to some man.
Laws and systems of polity always begin by recognising the relations they find already existing between individuals.
They convert what was a mere physical fact into a legal right, give it the sanction of society, and principally
aim at the substitution of public and organised means of asserting and protecting these rights, instead of the
irregular and lawless conflict of physical strength. Those who had already been compelled to obedience became in
this manner legally bound to it. Slavery, from be inn a mere affair of force between the master and the slave,
became regularised and a matter of compact among the masters, who, binding themselves to one another for common
protection, guaranteed by their collective strength the private possessions of each, including his slaves. In early
times, the great majority of the male sex were slaves, as well as the whole of the female. And many ages elapsed,
some of them ages of high cultivation, before any thinker was bold enough to question the rightfulness, and the
absolute social necessity, either of the one slavery or of the other. By degrees such thinkers did arise; and (the
general progress of society assisting) the slavery of the male sex has, in all the countries of Christian Europe
at least (though, in one of them, only within the last few years) been at length abolished, and that of the female
sex has been gradually changed into a milder form of dependence. But this dependence, as it exists at present,
is not an original institution, taking a fresh start from considerations of justice and social expediency--it is
the primitive state of slavery lasting on, through successive mitigations and modifications occasioned by the same
causes which have softened the general manners, and brought all human relations more under the control of justice
and the influence of humanity. It has not lost the taint of its brutal origin. No presumption in its favour, therefore,
can be drawn from the fact of its existence.
The only such presumption which it could be supposed to have, must be grounded on its having lasted till now, when
so many other things which came down from the same odious source have been done away with. And this, indeed, is
what makes it strange to ordinary ears, to hear it asserted that the inequality of rights between men and women
has no other source than the law of the strongest. That this statement should have the effect of a paradox, is
in some respects creditable to the progress of civilisation, and the improvement of the moral sentiments of mankind.
We now live--that is to say, one or two of the most advanced nations of the world now live--in a state in which
the law of the strongest seems to be entirely abandoned as the regulating principle of the world's affairs: nobody
professes it, and, as regards most of the relations between human beings, nobody is permitted to practise it. When
anyone succeeds in doing so, it is under cover of some pretext which gives him the semblance of having some general
social interest on his side. This being the ostensible state of things, people flatter themselves that the rule
of mere force is ended; that the law of the strongest cannot be the reason of existence of anything which has remained
in full operation down to the present time. However any of our present institutions may have begun, it can only,
they think, have been preserved to this period of advanced civilisation by a well-grounded feeling of its adaptation
to human nature, and conduciveness to the general good. They do not understand the great vitality and durability
of institutions which place right on the side of might; how intensely they are clung to; how the good as well as
the bad propensities and sentiments of those who have power in their hands, become identified with retaining it;
how slowly these bad institutions give way, one at a time, the weakest first. beginning with those which are least
interwoven with the daily habits of life;and how very rarely those who have obtained legal power because they first
had physical, have ever lost their hold of it until the physical power had passed over to the other side. Such
shifting of the physical force not having taken place in the case of women; this fact, combined with all the peculiar
and characteristic features of the particular case, made it certain from the first that this branch of the system
of right founded on might, though softened in its most atrocious features at an earlier period than several of
the others, would be the very last to disappear. It was inevitable that this one case of a social relation grounded
on force, would survive through generations of institutions grounded on equal justice, an almost solitary exception
to the general character of their laws and customs; but which, so long as it does not proclaim its own origin,
and as discussion has not brought out its true character, is not felt to jar with modern civilisation, any more
than domestic slavery among the Greeks jarred with their notion of themselves as a free people.
The truth is, that people of the present and the last two or three generations have lost all practical sense of
the primitive condition of humanity; and only the few who have studied history accurately, or have much frequented
the parts of the world occupied by the living representatives of ages long past, are able to form any mental picture
of what society then was. People are not aware how entirely, informer ages, the law of superior strength was the
rule of life; how publicly and openly it was avowed, I do not say cynically or shamelessly--for these words imply
a feeling that there was something in it to be ashamed of, and no such notion could find a place in the faculties
of any person in those ages, except a philosopher or a saint. History gives a cruel experience of human nature,
in showing how exactly the regard due to the life, possessions, and entire earthly happiness of any class of persons,
was measured by what they had the power of enforcing; how all who made any resistance to authorities that had arms
in their hands, however dreadful might be the provocation, had not only the law of force but all other laws, and
all the notions of social obligation against them; and in the eyes of those whom they resisted, were not only guilty
of crime, but of the worst of all crimes, deserving the most cruel chastisement which human beings could inflict.
The first small vestige of a feeling of obligation in a superior to acknowledge any right in inferiors, began when
he had been induced, for convenience, to make some promise to them.
Though these promises, even when sanctioned by the most solemn oaths, were for many ages revoked or violated on
the most trifling provocation or temptation, it is probably that this, except by persons of still worse than the
average morality, was seldom done without some twinges of conscience. The ancient republics, being mostly grounded
from the first upon some kind of mutual con;pact, or at any rate formed by an union of persons not very unequal
in strength, afforded, in consequence, the first instance of a portion of human relations fenced round, and placed
under the dominion of another law than that of force. And though the original law of force remained in full operation
between them and their slaves, and also (except so far as limited by express compact) between a commonwealth and
its subjects, or other independent commonwealths; the banishment of that primitive law even from so narrow a field,
commenced the regeneration of human nature, by giving birth to sentiments of which experience soon demonstrated
the immense value even for material interests, and which thence forward only required to be enlarged, not created.
Though slaves were no part of the commonwealth, it was in the free states that slaves were first felt to have rights
as human beings. The Stoics were, I believe, the first (except so far as the Jewish law constitutes an exception)
who taught as a part of morality that men were bound by moral obligations to their slaves. No one, after Christianity
became ascendant, could ever again have been a stranger to this belief, in theory; nor, after the rise of the Catholic
Church, was it ever without persons to stand up for it.
Yet to enforce it was the most arduous task which Christianity ever had to perform. For more thana thousand years
the Church kept up the contest, with hardly any perceptible success. It was not for want of power over men's minds.
Its power was prodigious. It could make kings and nobles resign their most valued possessions to enrich the Church.
It could make thousands in the prime of life and the height of worldly advantages, shut themselves up in convents
to work out their salvation by poverty, fasting, and prayer. It could send hundreds of thousands across land and
sea, Europe and Asia, to give their lives for the deliverance of the Holy Sepulchre. It could make kings relinquish
wives who were the object of their passionate attachment, because the Church declared that they were within the
seventh (by our calculation the fourteenth) degree of relationship. All this it did; but it could not make men
fight less with one another, nor tyrannise less cruelly over the serfs, and when they were able, over burgesses.
It could not make them renounce either of the applications of force; force militant, or force triumphant. This
they could never be induced to do until they were themselves in their turn compelled by superior force. Only by
the growing power of kings was an end put to fighting except between kings, or competitors for kingship; only by
the growth of a wealthy and warlike bourgeoisie in the fortified towns, and of a plebeian infantry which proved
more powerful in the field than the undisciplined chivalry, was the insolent tyranny of the nobles over the bourgeoisie
and peasantry brought within some bounds. It was persisted in not only until, but long after, the oppressed had
obtained a power enabling them often to take conspicuous vengeance; and on the Continent much of it continued to
the time of the French Revolution, though in England the earlier and better organisation of the democratic classes
put an end to it sooner, by establishing equal laws and free national institutions. If people are mostly so little
aware how completely, during the greater part of the duration of our species, the law of force was the avowed rule
of general conduct, any other being only a special and exceptional consequence of peculiar ties---and from how
very recent a date it is that the affairs of society in general have been even pretended to be regulated according
to any moral law; as little do people remember or consider, how institutions and customs which never had any ground
but the law of force, last on into ages and states of general opinion which never would have permitted their first
establishment. Less than forty years ago, Englishmen might still by law hold human beings in bondage as saleable
property: within the present century they might kidnap them and carry them off, and work them literally to death.
This absolutely extreme case of the law of force, condemned by those who can tolerate almost every other form of
arbitrary power, and which, of all others presents features the most revolting to the feelings of all who look
at it from an impartial position, was the law of civilised and Christian England within the memory of persons now
living: and in one half of Anglo-Saxon America three or four years ago, not only did slavery exist, but the slave-trade,
and the breeding of slaves expressly for it, was a general practice between slave states. Yet not only was there
a greater strength of sentiment against it, but, in England at least, a less amount either of feeling or of interest
in favour of it, than of any other of the customary abuses of force: for its motive was the love of gain, unmixed
and undisguised; and those who profited by it were a very small numerical fraction of the country, while the natural
feeling of all who were not personally interested in it, was unmitigated abhorrence. So extreme an instance makes
it almost superfluous to refer to any other: but consider the long duration of absolute monarchy. In England at
present it is the almost universal conviction that military despotism is a case of the law of force, having no
other origin or justification. Yet in all the great nations of Europe except England it either still exists, or
has only just ceased to exist, and has even now a strong party favourable to it in all ranks of the people, especially
among persons of station and consequence. Such is the power of an established system, even when far from universal;
when not only in almost every period of history there have been great and well-known examples of the contrary system,
but these have almost invariably been afforded by the most illustrious and most prosperous communities. In this
case, too, the possessor of the undue power, the person directly interested in it, is only one person, while those
who are subject to it and suffer from it are literally all the rest.
The yoke is naturally and necessarily humiliating to all persons, except the one who is on the throne, together
with, at most, the one who expects to succeed to it.
How different are these cases from that of the power of men over women!I am not now prejudging the question-of
its justifiableness. I am showing how vastly more permanent it could not but be, even if not justifiable, than
these other dominations which have nevertheless lasted down to our own time. Whatever gratification of pride there
is in the possession of power, and whatever personal interest in its exercise, is in this case not confined to
a limited class, but common to the whole male sex. Instead of being, to most of its supporters) a thing desirable
chiefly in the abstract, or, like the political ends usually contended for by factions, of little private importance
to any but the leaders; it comes home to the person and hearth of every male head of a family, and of everyone
who looks forward to being so.
The clodhopper exercises, oris to exercise, his share of the power equally with the highest nobleman. And the case
is that in which the desire of power is the strongest: for everyone who desires power, desires it most over those
who are nearest to him, with whom his life is passed, with whom he has most concerns in common and in whom any
independence of his authority is oftenest likely to interfere with his individual preferences. If, in the other
cases specified, powers manifestly grounded only on force, and having so much less to support them, are so slowly
and with so much difficulty got rid of, much more must it be so with this, even if it rests on no better foundation
than those. We must consider, too, that the possessors of the power have facilities in this case, greater than
in any other, to prevent any uprising against it.
Every one of the subjects lives under the very eye, and almost, it may be said, in the hands, of one of the masters
in closer intimacy with him than with any of her fellow-subjects; with no means of combining against him, no power
of even locally over mastering him, and, on the other hand, with the strongest motives for seeking his favour and
avoiding to give him offence. In struggles for political emancipation, everybody knows how often its champions
are bought off by bribes, or daunted by terrors. In the case of women, each individual of the subject-class is
in a chronic state of bribery and intimidation combined. In setting up the standard of resistance, a large number
of the leaders, and still more of the followers, must make an almost complete sacrifice of the pleasures or the
alleviations of their own individual lot. If ever any system of privilege and enforced subjection had its yoke
tightly riveted on the those who are kept down by it, this has. I have not yet shown that it is a wrong system:
but everyone who is capable of thinking on the subject must see that even if it is, it was certain to outlast all
other forms of unjust authority. And when some of the grossest of the other forms still exist in many civilised
countries, and have only recently been got rid of in others, it would be strange if that which is so much the deepest
rooted had yet been perceptibly shaken anywhere. There is more reason to wonder that the protests and testimonies
against it should have been so numerous and so weighty as they are. Some will object, that a comparison cannot
fairly be made between the government of the male sex and the forms of unjust power which I have adduced in illustration
of it, since these are arbitrary, and the effect of mere usurpation, while it on the contrary is natural. But was
there ever any domination which did not appear natural to those who possessed it? There was a time when the division
of mankind into two classes, a small one of masters and a numerous one of slaves, appeared, even to the most cultivated
minds, to be natural, and the only natural, condition of the human race. No less an intellect, and one which contributed
no less to the progress of human thought, than Aristotle, held this opinion without doubt or misgiving; and rested
it on the same premises on which the same assertion in regard to the dominion of men over women is usually based,
namely that there are different natures among mankind, free natures, and slave natures; that the Greeks were of
a free nature, the barbarian races of Thracians and Asiatics of a slave nature. But why need I go back to Aristotle?
Did not the slave-owners of the Southern United States maintain the same doctrine, with all the fanaticism with
which men ding to the theories that justify their passions and legitimate their personal interests? Did they not
call heaven and earth to witness that the dominion of the white man over the black is natural, that the black race
is by nature incapable of freedom, and marked out for slavery? some even going so far as to say that the freedom
of manual labourers is an unnatural order of things anywhere.
Again, the theorists of absolute monarchy have always affirmed it to be the only natural form of government; issuing
from the patriarchal, which was the primitive and spontaneous form of society, framed on the model of the paternal,
which is anterior to society itself, and, as they contend, the most natural authority of all. Nay, for that matter,
the law of force itself, to those who could not plead any other has always seemed the most natural of all grounds
for the exercise of authority. Conquering races hold it to be Nature's own dictate that the conquered should obey
the conquerors, or as they euphoniously paraphrase it, that the feebler and more unwarlike races should submit
to the braver and manlier. The smallest acquaintance with human life in the middle ages, shows how supremely natural
the dominion of the feudal nobility overmen of low condition appeared to the nobility themselves, and how unnatural
the conception seemed, of a person of the inferior class claiming equality with them, or exercising authority over
them. It hardly seemed less so to the class held in subjection.
The emancipated serfs and burgesses, even in their most vigorous struggles, never made any pretension to a share
of authority; they only demanded more or less of limitation to the power of tyrannising over them.
So true is it that unnatural generally means only uncustomary, and that everything which is usual appears natural.
The subjection of women to men being a universal custom, any departure from it quite naturally appears unnatural.
But how entirely, even in this case, the feeling is dependent on custom, appears by ample experience. Nothing so
much astonishes the people of distant parts of the world, when they first learn anything about England, as to be
told that it is under a queen; the thing seems to them so unnatural as to be almost incredible.
To Englishmen this does not seem in the least degree unnatural, because they are used to it; but they do feel it
unnatural that women should be soldiers or Members of Parliament. In the feudal ages, on the contrary, war and
politics were not thought unnatural to women, because not unusual; it seemed natural that women of the privileged
classes should be of manly character, inferior in nothing but bodily strength to their husbands and fathers. The
independence of women seemed rather less unnatural to the Greeks than to other ancients, on account of the fabulous
Amazons (whom they believed to be historical), and the partial example afforded by the Spartan women; who, though
no less subordinate by law than in other Greek states, were more free in fact, and being trained to bodily exercises
in the same manner with men, gave ample proof that they were not naturally disqualified for them. There can be
little doubt that Spartan experience suggested to Plato, among many other of his doctrines, t of the social and
political equality of the two sexes. But, it will be said, the rule of men over women differs from all these others
in not being a rule a rule of force: it is accepted voluntarily; women make no complaint, and are consenting parties
to it. In the first place, a great number of women do not accept it. Ever since there have been women able to make
their sentiments known by their writings (the only mode of publicity which society permits to them), an increasing
number of them have recorded protests against their present social condition: and recently many thousands of them,
headed by the most eminent women known to the public, have petitioned Parliament for their admission to the Parliamentary
Suffrage
The claim of women to be educated as solidly, and in the same branches of knowledge, as men, is urged with growing
intensity, and with a great prospect of success; while the demand for their admission into professions and occupations
hitherto closed against them, becomes every year more urgent. Though there are not in this country, as there are
in the United States, periodical conventions and an organised party to agitate for the Rights of Women, there is
a numerous and active society organised and managed by women, for the more limited object of obtaining the political
franchise. Nor is it only in our own country and in America that women are beginning to protest, more or less collectively,
against the disabilities under which they labour. France, and Italy, and Switzerland, and Russia now afford examples
of the same thing. How many more women there are who silently cherish similar aspirations, no one can possibly
know; but there are abundant tokens how many would cherish them, were they not so strenuously taught to repress
them as contrary to the proprieties of their sex. It must be remembered, also, that no enslaved class ever asked
for complete liberty at once. When Simon de Montfort called the deputies of the commons to sit for the first time
in Parliament, did any of them dream of demanding that an assembly, elected by their constituents)should make and
destroy ministries, and dictate to the king in affairs of State ? No such thought entered into the imagination
of the most ambitious of them. The nobility had already these pretensions; the commons pretended to nothing but
to be exempt from arbitrary taxation, and from the gross individual oppression of the king's officers. It is a
political law of nature that those who are under any power of ancient origin, never begin by complaining of the
power itself, but only of its oppressive exercise. There is never any want of women who complain of ill-usage by
their husbands. There would be infinitely more, if complaint were not the greatest of all provocatives to a repetition
and increase of the ill-usage. It is this which frustrates all attempts to maintain the power but protect the woman
against its abuses. In no other case (except that of a child) is the person who has been proved judicially to have
suffered an injury, replaced under the physical power of the culprit who inflicted it. Accordingly wives, even
in the most extreme and protracted cases of bodily ill-usage, hardly ever dare avail themselves of the laws made
for their protection: and if, in a moment of irrepressible indignation, or by the interference of neighbours, they
are induced to do so, their whole effort afterwards is to disclose as little as they can, and to beg off their
tyrant from his merited chastisement.
All causes, social and natural, combine to make it unlikely that women should be collectively rebellious to the
power of men. They are so far in a position different from all other subject classes, that their masters require
something more from them than actual service.
Men do not want solely the obedience of women, they want their sentiments. All men, except the most brutish, desire
to have, in the woman most nearly connected with them, not a forced slave but a willing one, not a slave merely,
but a favourite. They have therefore put everything in practice to enslave their minds. The masters of all other
slaves rely, for maintaining obedience, on fear; either fear of themselves, or religious fears. The masters of
women wanted more than simple obedience, and they turned the whole force of education to effect their purpose.
All women are brought up from the very earliest years in the belief that their ideal of character is the very opposite
to that of men; not self will, and government by self-control, but submission, and yielding to the control of other.
All the moralities tell them that it is the duty of women, and all the current sentimentalities that it is their
nature, to live for others; to make complete abnegation of themselves, and to have no life but in their affections.
And by their affections are meant the only ones they are allowed to have - - those to the men with whom they are
connected, or to the children who constitute an additional and indefeasible tie between them and a man. When we
put together three things -- first, the natural attraction between opposite sexes; secondly, the wife's entire
dependence on the husband, every privilege or pleasure she has being either his gift, or depending entirely on
his will; and lastly, that the principal object of human pursuit, consideration, and all objects of social ambition,
can in general be sought or obtained by her only through him, it would be a miracle if the object of being attractive
to men had not become the polar star of feminine education and formation of character. And, this great means of
influence over the minds of women having been acquired, an instinct of selfishness made men avail themselves of
it to the utmost as a means of holding women in subjection, by representing to them meekness, submissiveness, and
resignation of all individual will into the hands of a man, as an essential part of sexual attractiveness. Can
it be doubted that any of the other yokes which mankind have succeeded in breaking, would have subsisted till now
if the same means had existed, and had been so sedulously used, to bow down their minds to it?
If it had been made the object of the life of every young plebeian to find personal favour in the eyes of some
patrician, of every young serf with some seigneur; if domestication with him, and a share of his personal affections,
had been held out as the prize which they all should look out for, the most gifted and aspiring being able to reckon
on the most desirable prizes; and if, when this prize had been obtained, they had been shut out by a wall of brass
from all interests not centring in him, all feelings and desires but those which he shared or inculcated; would
not serfs and seigneurs, plebeians and patricians, have been as broadly distinguished at this day as men and women
are? and would not all but a thinker here and there, have believed the distinction to be a fundamental and unalterable
fact in human nature? The preceding considerations are amply sufficient to show that custom, however universal
it may be, affords in this case no presumption, and ought not to create any prejudice, in favour of the arrangements
which place women in social and political subjection to men. But I may go farther, and maintain that the course
of history, and the tendencies of progressive human society, afford not only no presumption in favour of this system
of inequality of rights, but a strong one against it; and that, so far as the whole course of human improvement
up to the time, the whole stream of modern tendencies, warrants any inference on the subject, it is, that this
relic of the past is discordant with the future, and must necessarily disappear. For, what is the peculiar character
of the modern world-- the difference which chiefly distinguishes modern institutions, modern social ideas, modern
life itself, from those of times long past? It is, that human beings are no longer born to their place in life,
and chained down by an inexorable bond to the would be infinitely more, if complaint were not the greatest of all
provocatives to a repetition and increase of the ill-usage. It is this which frustrates all attempts to maintain
the power but protect the woman against its abuses. In no other case (except that of a child) is the person who
has been proved judicially to have suffered an injury, replaced under the physical power of the culprit who inflicted
it. Accordingly wives, even in the most extreme and protracted cases of bodily ill-usage, hardly ever dare avail
themselves of the laws made for their protection: and if, in a moment of irrepressible indignation, or by the interference
of neighbours, they are induced to do so, their whole effort afterwards is to disclose as little as they can, and
to beg off their tyrant from his merited chastisement. All causes, social and natural, combine to make it unlikely
that women should be collectively rebellious to the power of . men. They are so far in a position different from
all other subject classes, that their masters require something more from them than actual service Men do not want
solely the obedience of women, they want their sentiments. All men, except the most brutish, desire to have, in
the woman most nearly connected with them, not a forced slave but a willing one, not a slave merely, but a favourite.
They have therefore put everything in practice to enslave their minds. The masters of all other slaves rely, for
maintaining obedience, on fear; either fear of themselves, or religious fears.
The masters of women wanted more than simple obedience, and they turned the whole force of education to effect
their purpose.
All women are brought up from the very earliest years in the belief that their ideal of character is the very opposite
to that of men; not self-will, and government by self-control, but submission, and yielding to the control of others.
All the moralities tell them that it is the duty of women, and all the current sentimentalities that it is their
nature, to live for others; to make complete abnegation of themselves, and to have no life but in their affections.
And by their affections are meant the only ones they are allowed to have--those to the men with whom they are connected,
or to the children who constitute an additional and indefeasible tie between them and a man. When we put together
three things--first, the natural attraction between opposite sexes; secondly, the wife's entire dependence on the
husband, every privilege or pleasure she has being either his gift, or depending entirely on his will; and lastly,
that the principal object of human pursuit, consideration, and all objects of social ambition, can in general be
sought or obtained by her only through him, it would be a miracle if the object of being attractive to men had
not become the polar star of feminine education and formation of character. And, this great means of influence
over the minds of women having been acquired, an instinct of selfishness made men avail themselves of it to the
utmost as a means of holding women in subjection, by representing to them meekness, submissiveness, and resignation
of all individual will into the hands of a man, as an essential part of sexual attractiveness. Can it be doubted
that any of the other yokes which mankind have succeeded in breaking, would have subsisted till now if the same
means had existed, and had been so sedulously used, to bow down their minds to it?
If it had been made the object of the life of every young plebeian to find personal favour in the eyes of some
patrician, of every young serf with some seigneur; if domestication with him, and a share of his personal affections,
had been held out as the prize which they all should look out for, the most gifted and aspiring being able to reckon
on the most desirable prizes; and if, when this prize had been obtained, they had been shut out by a wall of brass
from all interests not centring in him, all feelings and desires but those which he shared or inculcated; would
not serfs and seigneurs, plebeians and patricians, have been as broadly distinguished at this day as men and women
are? and would not all but a thinker here and there, have believed the distinction to be a fundamental and unalterable
fact in human nature? The preceding considerations are amply sufficient to show that custom, however universal
it may be, affords in this case no presumption, and ought not to create any prejudice, in favour of the arrangements
which place women in social and political subjection to men. But I may go farther, and maintain that the course
of history, and the tendencies of progressive human society, afford not only no presumption in favour of this system
of inequality of rights, but a strong one against it; and that, so far as the whole course of human improvement
up to the time, the whole stream of modern tendencies, warrants any inference on the subject, it is, that this
relic of the past is discordant with the future, and must necessarily disappear. For, what is the peculiar character
of the modern world-- the difference which chiefly distinguishes modern institutions, modern social ideas, modern
life itself, from those of times long past? It is, that human beings are no longer born to their place in life,
and chained down by an inexorable bond to the place they are born to, but are free to employ their faculties, and
such favourable chances as offer, to achieve the lot which may appear to them most desirable.
Human society of old was constituted on a very different principle. All were born to a fixed social position, and
were mostly kept in it by law, or interdicted from any means by which they could emerge from it. As some men are
born white and others black, so some were born slaves and others freemen and citizens; some were born patricians,
others plebeians; some were born feudal nobles, others commoners and roturiers. A slave or serf could never make
himself free, nor, except by the will of his master, become so. In most European countries it was not till towards
the close of the middle ages, and as a consequence of the growth of regal power, that commoners could be ennobled.
Even among nobles, the eldest son was born the exclusive heir to the paternal possessions, and a long time elapsed
before it was fully established that the father could disinherit him. Among the industrious classes, only those
who were born members of a guild, or were admitted into it by its members, could lawfully practise their calling
within its local limits; and nobody could practise any calling deemed important, in any but the legal manner--by
processes authoritatively prescribed. Manufacturers have stood in the pillory for presuming to carry on their business
by new and improved methods. In modern Europe, and most in those parts of it which have participated most largely
in all other modern improvements, diametrically opposite doctrines now prevail.
Law and government do not undertake to prescribe by whom any social or industrial operation shall or shall not
be conducted, or what modes of conducting them shall be lawful. These things are left to the unfettered choice
of individuals. Even the laws which required that workmen should serve an apprenticeship, have in this country
been repealed: there being ample assurance that in all cases in which an apprenticeship is necessary, its necessity
will suffice to enforce it. The old theory was, that the least possible should be left to the choice of the individual
agent; that all he had to do should, as far as practicable, be laid down for him by superior wisdom. Left to himself
he was sure to go wrong. The modern conviction, the fruit of a thousand years of experience, is, that things in
which the individual is the person directly interested, never go right but as they are left to his own discretion;
and that any regulation of them by authority, except to protect the rights of others, is sure to be mischievous.
This conclusion slowly arrived at, and not adopted until almost every possible application of the contrary theory
had been made with disastrous result, now (in the industrial department) prevails universally in the most advanced
countries, almost universally in all that have pretensions to any sort of advancement. It is not that all processes
are supposed to be equally good, or all persons to be equally qualified for everything; but that freedom of individual
choice is now known to be the only thing which procures the adoption of the best processes, and throws each operation
into the hands of those who are best qualified for it. Nobody thinks it necessary to make a law that only a strong-armed
man shall be a blacksmith.
Freedom and competition suffice to make blacksmiths strong-armed men, because the weak armed can earn more by engaging
in occupations for which they are more fit. In consonance with this doctrine, it is felt to be an overstepping
of the proper bounds of authority to fix beforehand, on some general presumption, that certain persons are not
fit to do certain things. It is now thoroughly known and admitted that if some such presumptions exist, no such
presumption is infallible. Even if it be well grounded in a majority of cases, which it is very likely not to be,
there will be a minority of exceptional cases in which it does not hold: and in those it is both an injustice to
the individuals, and a detriment to society, to place barriers in the way of their using their faculties for their
own benefit and for that of others. In the cases, on the other hand, in which the unfitness is real, the ordinary
motives of human conduct will on the whole suffice to prevent the incompetent person from making, or from persisting
in, the attempt. If this general principle of social and economical science is not true; if individuals, with such
help as they can derive from the opinion of those who know them, are not better judges than the law and the government,
of their own capacities and vocation; the world cannot too soon abandon this principle, and return to the old system
of regulations and disabilities. But if the principle is true, we ought to act as if we believed it, and not to
ordain that to be born a girl instead of a boy, any more than to be born black instead of white, or a commoner
instead of a nobleman, shall decide the person's position through all life--shall interdict people from all the
more elevated social positions, and from all, except a few, respectable occupations. Even were we to admit the
utmost that is ever pretended a to the superior fitness of men for all the functions now reserve to them, the same
argument applies which forbids a legal qualification for Members of Parliament. If only once in a dozen years the
conditions of eligibility exclude a fit person, there is a real loss, while the exclusion of thousands of unfit
persons is no gain; for if the constitution of the electoral body disposes them to choose unfit persons, there
are always plenty of such persons to choose from. In all things of any difficulty and importance, those who can
do them well are fewer than the need, even with the most unrestricted latitude of choice: and any limitation of
the field of selection deprives society of some chances of being served by the competent, without ever saving it
from the incompetent. At present, in the more improved countries, the disabilities of women are the only case,
save one, in which laws and institutions take persons at their birth, and ordain that they shall never in all their
lives be allowed to compete for certain things. The one exception is that of royalty. Persons still are born to
the throne; no one, not of the reigning family, can ever occupy it, and no one even of that family can, by any
means but the course of hereditary succession, attain it. All other dignities and social advantages are open to
the whole male sex: many indeed are only attainable by wealth, but wealth may be striven for by anyone, and is
actually obtained by many men of the very humblest origin.
The difficulties, to the majority, are indeed insuperable without the aid of fortunate accidents; but no male human
being is under any legal ban: neither law nor opinion superadd artificial obstacles to the natural ones. Royalty,
as I have said, is excepted: but in this case everyone feels it to be an exception--an anomaly in the modern world,
in marked opposition to its customs and principles, and to be justified only by extraordinary special expediences,
which, though individuals and nations differ in estimating their weight, unquestionably do in fact exist. But in
this exceptional case, in which a high social function is, for important reasons, bestowed on birth instead of
being put up to competition, all free nations contrive to adhere in substance to the principle from which they
nominally derogate; for they circumscribe this high function by conditions avowedly intended to prevent the person
to whom it ostensibly belongs from really performing it; while the person by whom it is performed, the responsible
minister, does obtain the post by a competition from which no full-grown citizen of the male sex is legally excluded.
The disabilities, therefore, to which women are subject from the mere fact of their birth, are the solitary examples
of the kind in modern legislation. In no instance except this, which comprehends half the human race, are the higher
social functions closed against anyone by a fatality of birth which no exertions, and no change of circumstances,
can overcome; for even religious disabilities (besides that in England and in Europe they have practically almost
ceased to exist) do not close any career to the disqualified person in case of conversion.
The social subordination of women thus stands out an isolated fact in modern social institutions; a solitary breach
of what has become their fundamental law; a single relic of an old world of thought and practice exploded in everything
else, but retained in the one thing of most universal interest; as if a gigantic dolmen, or a vast temple of Jupiter
Olympius, occupied the site of St. Paul's and received daily worship, while the surrounding Christian churches
were only resorted to on fasts and festivals. This entire discrepancy between one social fact and all those which
accompany it, and the radical opposition between its nature and the progressive movement which is the boast of
the modern world, and which has successively swept away everything else of an analogous character, surely affords,
to a conscientious observer of human tendencies, serious matter for reflection. It raises a prima facie presumption
on the unfavourable side, far outweighing any which custom and usage could in such circumstances create on the
favourable;and should at least suffice to make this, like the choice between republicanism and royalty, a balanced
question.
The least that can be demanded is, that the question should not be considered as prejudged by existing fact and
existing opinion, but open to discussion on its merits, as a question of justice and expediency: the decision on
this, as on any of the other social arrangements of mankind, depending on what an enlightened estimate of tendencies
and consequences may show to be most advantageous to humanity in general, without distinction of sex. And the discussion
must be a real discussion, descending to foundations, and not resting satisfied with vague and general assertions.
It will not do, for instance to assert in general terms, that the experience of mankind has pronounced in favour
of the existing system. Experience cannot possibly have decided between two courses, so long as there has only
been experience of one. If it be said that the doctrine of the equality of the sexes rests only on theory, it must
be remembered that the contrary doctrine also has only theory to rest upon. All that is proved in its favour by
direct experience, is that mankind have been able to exist under it, and to attain the degree of improvement and
prosperity which we now see; but whether that prosperity has been attained sooner, or is now greater, than it would
have been under the other system, experience does not say. on the other hand, experience does say, that every step
in improvement has been so invariably accompanied by a step made in raising the social position of women, that
historians and philosophers have been led to adopt their elevation or debasement as on the whole the surest test
and most correct measure of the civilisation of a people or an age.
Through all the progressive period of human history, the condition of women has been approaching nearer to equality
with men. This does not of itself prove that the assimilation must goon to complete equality; but it assuredly
affords some presumption that such is the case. Neither does it avail anything to say that the nature of the two
sexes adapts them to their present functions and position, and renders these appropriate to them. Standing on the
ground of common sense and the constitution of the human mind, I deny that anyone knows, or can know, the nature
of the two sexes, as long as they have only been seen in their present relation to one another. If men had ever
been found in society without women, or women without men, or if there had been a society of men and women in which
the women were not under the control of the men, something might have been positively known about the mental and
moral differences which may be inherent in the nature of each. What is now called the nature of women is an eminently
artificial thing--the result of forced repression in some directions, unnatural stimulation in others. It may be
asserted without scruple, that no other class of dependents have had their character so entirely distorted from
its natural proportions by their relation with their masters; for, if conquered and slave races have been, in some
respects, more forcibly repressed, whatever in them has not been crushed down by an iron heel has generally been
let alone, and if left with any liberty of development, it has developed itself according to its own laws; but
in the case of women, a hot-house and stove cultivation has always been carried on of some of the capabilities
of their nature, for the benefit and pleasure of their masters
Then, because certain products of the general vital force sprout luxuriantly and reach a great development in this
heated atmosphere and under this active nurture and watering, while other shoots from the same root, which are
left outside in the wintry air, with ice purposely heaped all round them, have a stunted growth, and some are burnt
off with fire and disappear; men, with that inability to recognise their own work which distinguishes the unanalytic
mind, indolently believe that the tree grows of itself in the way they have made it grow, and that it would die
if one half of it were not kept in a vapour bath and the other half in the snow. Of all difficulties which impede
the progress of thought, and the formation of well-grounded opinions on life and social arrangements, the greatest
is now the unspeakable ignorance and inattention of mankind in respect to the influences which form human character.
Whatever any portion of the human species now are, or seem to be, such, it is supposed, they have a natural tendency
to be: even when the most elementary knowledge of the circumstances in which they have been placed, clearly points
out the causes that made them what they are. Because a cottier deeply in arrears to his landlord is not industrious,
there are people who think that the Irish are naturally idle.
Because constitutions can be overthrown when the authorities appointed to execute them turn their arms against
them, there are people who think the French incapable of free government. Because the Greeks cheated the Turks,
and the Turks only plundered the Greeks, there are persons who think that the Turks are naturally more sincere:
and because women, as is often said, care nothing about politics except their personalities, it is supposed that
the general good is naturally less interesting to women than to men. History, which is now so much better understood
than formerly, teaches another lesson: if only by showing the extraordinary susceptibility of human nature to external
influences, and the extreme variableness of those of its manifestations which are supposed to be most universal
and uniform. But in history, as in travelling, men usually see only what they already had in their own minds; and
few learn much from history, who do not bring much with them to its study. Hence, in regard to that most difficult
question, what are the natural differences between the two sexes--a subject on which it is impossible in the present
state of society to obtain complete and correct knowledge--while almost everybody dogmatises upon it, almost all
neglect and make light of the only means by which any partial insight can be obtained into it. This is, an analytic
study of the most important department of psychology, the laws of the influence of circumstances on character.
For, however great and apparently ineradicable the moral and intellectual differences between men and women might
be, the evidence of there being natural differences could only be negative. Those only could be inferred to be
natural which could not possibly be artificial--the residuum, after deducting every characteristic of either sex
which can admit of being explained from education or external circumstances.
The profoundest knowledge of the laws of the formation of character is indispensable to entitle anyone to affirm
even that there is any difference, much more what the difference is, between the two sexes considered as moral
and rational beings; and since no one, as yet, has that knowledge (for there is hardly any subject which, in proportion
to its importance, has been so little studied), no one is thus far entitled to any positive opinion on the subject.
Conjectures are all that can at present be made;conjectures more or less probable, according as more or less authorised
by such knowledge as we yet have of the laws of psychology, as applied to the formation of character. Even the
preliminary knowledge, what the differences between the sexes now are, apart from all question as to how they are
made what they are, is still in the crudest and most' incomplete state. Medical practitioners and physiologists
have ascertained, to some extent, the differences in bodily constitution; and this is an important element to the
psychologist: but hardly any medical practitioner is a psychologist. Respecting the mental characteristics of women;
their observations are of no more worth than those of common men. It is a subject on which nothing final can be
known, so long as those who alone can really know it, women themselves, have given but little testimony, and that
little, mostly suborned. It is easy to know stupid women. Stupidity is much the same all the world over. A stupid
person's notions and feelings may confidently be inferred from those which prevail in the circle by which the person
is surrounded.
Not so with those whose opinions and feelings are an emanation from their own nature and faculties. It is only
a man here and there who has any tolerable knowledge of the character even of the women of his own family. I do
not mean, of their capabilities; these nobody knows, not even themselves, because most of them have never been
called out. I mean their actually existing thoughts and feelings. Many a man think she perfectly understands women,
because he has had amatory relations with several, perhaps with many of them. If he is a good observer, and his
experience extends to quality as well as quantity, he may have learnt something of one narrow department of their
nature--an important department, no doubt. But of all the rest of it, few persons are generally more ignorant,
because there are few from whom it is so carefully hidden.
The most favourable case which a man can generally have for studying the character of a woman, is that of his own
wife: for the opportunities are greater, and the cases of complete sympathy not so unspeakably rare. And in fact,
this is the source from which any knowledge worth having on the subject has, I believe, generally come. But most
men have not had the opportunity of studying in this way more than a single case: accordingly one can, to an almost
laughable degree, infer what a man's wife is like, from his opinions about women in general.
To make even this one case yield any result, the woman must be worth knowing, and the man not only a competent
judge, but of a character so sympathetic in itself, and so well adapted to hers, that he can either read her mind
by sympathetic intuition, or has nothing in himself which makes her shy of disclosing it, Hardly anything, I believe,
can be more rare than this conjunction. It often happens that there is the most complete unity of feeling and community
of interests as to all external things, yet the one has as little admission into the internal life of the other
as if they were common acquaintance. Even with true affection, authority on the one side and subordination on the
other prevent perfect confidence. Though nothing may be intentionally withheld, much is not shown. In the analogous
relation of parent and child, the corresponding phenomenon must have been in the observation of everyone. As between
father and son, how many are the cases in which the father, in spite of real affection on both sides, obviously
to all the world does not know, nor suspect, parts of the son's character familiar to his companions and equals.
The truth is, that the position of looking up to another is extremely unpropitious to complete sincerity and openness
with him. The fear of losing ground in his opinion or in his feelings is so strong, that even in an upright character,
there is an unconscious tendency to show only the best side, or the side which, though not the best, is that which
he most likes to see: and it may be confidently said that thorough knowledge of one another hardly ever exists,
but between persons who, besides being intimates, are equals. How much more true, then, must all this be, when
the one is not only under the authority of the other, but has it inculcated on her as a duty to reckon everything
else subordinate to his comfort and pleasure, and to let him neither see nor feel anything coming from her, except
what is agreeable to him. All these difficulties stand in the way of a man's obtaining any thorough knowledge even
of the one woman whom alone, in general, he has sufficient opportunity of studying. When we further consider that
to understand one woman is not necessarily to understand any other woman; that even if he could study many women
of one rank, or of one country, he would not thereby understand women of other ranks or countries; and even if
he did, they are still only the women of a single period of history; we may safely assert that the knowledge which
men can acquire of women, even as they have been and are, without reference to what they might be, is wretchedly
imperfect and superficial, and always will be so, until women themselves have told all that they have to tell.
And this time has not come; nor will it come otherwise than gradually. It is but of yesterday that women have either
been qualified by literary accomplishments or permitted by society, to tell anything to the general public. As
yet very few of them dare tell anything, which men, on whom their literary success depends, are unwilling to hear.
Let us remember in what manner, up to a very recent time, the expression, even by a male author, of uncustomary
opinions, or what are deemed eccentric feelings, usually was, and in some degree still is, received; and we may
form some faint conception under what impediments a woman, who is brought up to think custom and opinion her sovereign
rule, attempts to express in books anything drawn from the depths of her own nature. The greatest woman who has
left writings behind her sufficient to give her an eminent rank in the literature of her country, thought it necessary
to prefix as a motto to her boldest work, " Un homme peut braver l'opinion; une femme doit s'y soumettre."
The greater part of what women write about women is mere sycophancy to men. In the case of unmarried women, much
of it seems only intended to increase their chance of a husband. Many, both married and unmarried, overstep the
mark, and inculcate a servility beyond what is desired or relished by any man, except the very vulgarest. But this
is not so often the L case as, even at a quite late period, it still was. Literary women I are becoming more free-spoken,
and more willing to express their real sentiments. Unfortunately, in this country especially, they are themselves
such artificial products, that their sentiments are compounded of a small element of individual observation and
consciousness, and a very large one of acquired associations. This will be less and less the case, but it will
remain true to a great extent, as long as social institutions do not admit the same free development of originality
in women which is possible to men. When that time comes, and not before, we shall see, and not merely hear, as
much as it is necessary to know of the nature of women, and the adaptation of other things to it.
I have dwelt so much on the difficulties which at present obstruct any real knowledge by men of the true nature
of women, because in this as in so many other things "opinio copiae inter maximas causas inopiae est";
and there is little chance of reasonable thinking on the matter while people flatter themselves that they perfectly
understand a subject of which most men know absolutely nothing, and of which it is at present impossible that any
man, or all men taken together, should have knowledge which can qualify them to lay down the law to women as to
what is, or is not, their vocation. Happily, no such knowledge is necessary for any practical purpose connected
with the position of women is relation to society and life. For, according to all the principles involved in modern
society, the question rests with women themselves--to be decided by their own experience, and by the use of their
own faculties. There are no means of finding what either one person or many can do, but by trying--and no means
by which anyone else can discover for them what it is for their happiness to do or leave undone. One thing we may
be certain of--that what is contrary to women's nature to do, they never will be made to do by simply giving their
nature free play. The anxiety of mankind to interfere in behalf of nature, for fear lest nature should not succeed
m effecting its purpose, is an altogether unnecessary solicitude.
What women by nature cannot do, it is quite superfluous to forbid them from doing. What they can do, but not so
well as the men who are their competitors, competition suffices to exclude them from; since nobody asks for protective
duties and bounties in favour of women; it is only asked that the present bounties and protective duties in favour
of men should be recalled. If women have a greater natural inclination for somethings than for others, there is
no need of laws or social inculcation to make the majority of them do the former in preference to the latter.
Whatever women's services are most wanted for, the free play of competition will hold out the strongest inducements
to them to undertake. And, as the words imply, they are most wanted for the things for which they are most fit;
by the apportionment of which to them, the collective faculties of the two sexes can be applied on the whole with
the greatest sum of valuable result. The general opinion of men is supposed to be, that the natural vocation of
a woman is that of a wife and mother. I say, is supposed to be, because, judging from acts--from the whole of the
present constitution of society--one might infer that their opinion was the direct contrary. They might be supposed
to think that the alleged natural vocation of women was of all things the most repugnant to their nature; insomuch
that if they are free to do anything else--if any other means of living or occupation of their time and faculties,
is open, which has any chance of appearing desirable to them- there will not be enough of them who will be willing
to accept the condition said to be natural to them. If this is the real opinion of men in general, it would be
well that it should be spoken out. I should like to hear somebody openly enunciating the doctrine (it is already
implied in much that is written on the subJect)- It is necessary to society that women should marry and produce
children. They will not do so unless they are compelled. Therefore it is necessary to compel them. " The merits
of the case would then be clearly defined. It would be exactly that of the slave-holders of South Carolina and
Louisiana. " It is necessary that cotton and sugar should be grown. White men cannot produce them. Negroes
will not, for any wages which we choose to give. Ergo they must be compelled. " An illustration still closer
to the point is that of impressment. Sailors must absolutely be had to defend the country. It often happens that
they will not voluntarily enlist. Therefore there must be the power of forcing them. How often has this logic been
used!and, but for one flaw in it, without doubt it would have been successful up to this day. But lt is open to
the retort-- First pay the sailors the honest value of their labour.
When you have made it as well worth their while to serve you, as to work for other employers, you will have no
more difficulty than others have in obtaining their services. To this there is no logical answer except"I
will not": and as people are now not only ashamed, but are not desirous, to rob the labourer of his hire,
impressment is no longer advocated. Those who attempt to force women into marriage by closing all other doors against
them, lay themselves open to a similar retort. If they mean what they say, their opinion must evidently be, that
men do not render the married condition so desirable to women, as to induce them to accept it for its own recommendations.
It is not a sign of one's thinking the boon one offers very attractive, when one allows only Hobson's choice, "that
or none. " And here, I believe, is the clue to the feelings of those men, who have a real antipathy to the
equal freedom of women. I believe they are afraid, not lest women should be unwilling to marry, for I do not think
that anyone in reality has that apprehension; but lest they should insist that marriage should be on equal conditions;
lest all women of spirit and capacity should prefer doing almost anything else, not in their own eyes degrading,
rather than marry, when marrying is giving themselves a master, and a master too of all their earthly possessions.
And truly, if this consequence were necessarily incident to marriage, I think that the apprehension would be very
well founded. I agree in thinking it probable that few women, capable of anything else, would, unless under an
irresistible entrainement, rendering them for the time insensible to anything but itself, choose such a lot, when
any other means were open to them of filling a conventionally honourable place in life: and if men are determined
that the law of marriage shall be a law of despotism, they are quite right, in point of mere policy, in leaving
to women only Hobson's choice. But, in that case, all that has been done in the modern world to relax the chain
on the minds of women, has been a mistake.
They never should have been allowed to receive a literary education.
Women who read, much more women who write, are, in the existing constitution of things, a contradiction and a disturbing
element: and it was wrong to bring women up with any acquirements but those of an odalisque, or of a domestic servant.